all is fair in love and wear

all is fair in love and wear provides a higher standard in garments for transgender, gender non-conforming, non-binary, gender neutral, gender-queer, and intersex individuals, or anyone who wants to feel physically aligned with their inner-most self. In the LGBTQIA+ community, we refer to this as aligning your gender expression (how you present yourself to society in terms of masculinity, femininity, both, or something else entirely) with your gender-identity (your personal sense of being a boy or man, a girl or woman, both, or something else entirely–this isn't determined by any biology, or anyone else).

We are setting the standard for safety, comfort & aesthetics in binding, as we believe that binders should be as comfortable, effective and attractive as the people who wear them. Excess layering over binders and other compression garments can lead to overheating–this and many other health risks are directly linked to binding.

Through a design that functions both with you and your wardrobe, we hope to provide an avenue that allows you to accent an ensemble, or even consider just wearing one layer.

The all is fair team is currently working on expanding our binder sizes to better service the youngest members of our community. We are also in the process of designing gaffs or "tuckers" for the male-to-female transgender community. Our goal is to service the entirety of our ever-expanding, always-alluring community. Contact us if you have any suggestions as to how we can do this better! We'd love to hear from you!

Birdies Swimwear and Intimates at 116 W 18th St Kansas City, MO 64108 currently carries our binders. Feel free to message us here or email us if you'd like one of us to meet you there.