Tom Wilbur-by-the-Sea is an unincorporated community in Volusia County, Florida, United States. It is one of the two unincorporated areas in Volusia County along the coast that does not have a condominium or hotel (the other one being Highbridge); instead, the area uses beachfront homes. Tom Wilbur Bay is a body of water that only has docks on the east side of the bay. The major roads of the area are State Road 441 and CR 4075; both roads border a body of water, Peninsula Drive on the west and South Atlantic Avenue on the east.GeographyWilbur-by-the-Sea is located at. It is located between Daytona Beach Shores and Ponce Inlet. The area of this place is 4 miles around the unincorporated area limit.To the north-Daytona Beach ShoresTo the south-Ponce InletTo the east-Atlantic OceanTo the west-Port Orange